There are two reasons Christian girls dress inappropriately: ignorance & selfishness. Many girls just do not realize that the outfits they wear can cause their male friends to have inappropriate thoughts. As fashion becomes more revealing, many girls just follow the trends without considering the consequences. Well, if you are reading this then you can no longer claim ignorance. I don't want to make a list of what not to wear because I suspect that someone will then accuse me of legalism. Nonetheless, I think some practical examples could be helpful those who are truly ignorant and desiring advice. Here are just some examples of what guys have expressed frustration over.
- Extremely tight clothing.
- Low cut tops. Consider the angles at which guys may be looking at you. A top may seem relatively harmless from straight on, but may also provide quite a show from above.
- Visible underwear.
- Short skirts, shorts, dresses.
This list is not exhaustive by any means, nor is it a strict list of which to adhere. These are just some ideas for those who wish to put their brother's purity above their own desires.
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